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Contributed by Ambrose Diaz, Lavalife
Ever
wondered why you're inexplicably drawn to someone? Beyond what
someone looks like or what they say, you're attracted to a person
in a way you can't quite understand.
If you've ever tried to explain an attraction by uttering
the phrase "I don't know... there's just something about
him/her" you might be operating under the influence of pheromones.
What Are Pheromones?
Basically, pheromones are a chemical or mixture of chemicals
that animals secrete from their glands in order to convey messages
to other members of the same species.
Pheromones can transmit messages of fear, anger, territorial
boundaries, and yes... sex. They can actually make some animals
stop dead in their tracks and be unable to move.
Our understanding of human pheromones is at a very early stage.
Back in 1986, Dr. Winifred Cutler, a biologist and behavioral
endocrinologist, co-discovered pheromones in the armpits of humans.
Hmm... is the armpit-licking fetish starting to make sense?
Despite where we secrete pheromones from, they are odorless
and undetectable by our five senses. This has led some people
to believe that we actually possess a sixth sense that allows
us to pick up on pheromone secretions.
"They don't work directly, but can modulate how we feel
and influence our moods," says bio-psychologist Martha K.
McClintock. "We're talking about things that can be sensed
but not recognized or verbalized. It's all subliminal."
So Long Chemistry -- Hello
Science
So perhaps we have something more tangible to talk about,
rather than the 'chemistry' we all seek with a partner. Maybe
we've just got to scratch and sniff around a little more in order
to find that special someone.
In an article for CNN.com, Dr. Deb Levine says, "If you're
looking for the man or woman of your dreams, unsuspecting pheromones
in your body scent are most likely playing a large and very clever
role in mate attraction."
McClintock adds that "We know, for example, that different
kinds of odors change people's moods. But this is different."
So, can we all stop showering and just let our pheromones
send out the right message to the right person? Well... sure
if you really want to, but before you do, you might want to know
that while almost all scientists believe that we secrete pheromones,
some believe that we lack the ability to sense them. Again, others
say that we just haven't located the receptor area for pheromones.
Geez... come on scientists! Stop getting hung up on empirical
evidence and tell me if I should just strut around with my pits
in the air next time I walk into a room full of women.
Selling Pheromones
Of course, when it comes to convincing people there might
be an easy way to find love or sex, we humans are very adept
at hitting the right receptor cells. There's been a huge rush
recently in the development and sales of pheromone perfumes.
Noted scientist and (ahem) bioneurosextapeologist, Paris Hilton,
has jumped on the pheromone bandwagon. One can only assume that
this particular bandwagon is "hot."
You may also have come across some spam emails promising you
pheromone-based sprays that will instantly attract lovers. While
most of these examples are just snake-oil salespeople trying
to make a buck with the latest Love Potion #9, again, the science
community is split.
Dr. Deb Levine tells us that in a recent test of a pheromone
called athena, 74 per cent of the people involved in the study
had "an increase in hugging, kissing and sexual intercourse."
But Dr. Charles J. Wysocki, of the Monell Chemical Senses
Center at the University of Pennsylvania says, "Since we
don't know a lot about the science, there is always the opportunity
for individuals to stake claims. Until we learn more, it's basically
a discussion based on belief rather than data."
Sure but when it comes to sexual confidence, belief rules.
The added poise you might feel when wearing a pheromone perfume
could be just enough to take you off the sidelines and into the
game...so, no harm no foul.
Does it Matter?
In the end, I wonder if it matters which scientific camp is
right. Until they discover a pheromone that can make us fall
in love, or control our minds, or make us work a full eight-hour
day, or ensure that we're completely honest when it comes to
filing our taxes, we're going to have to operate under the same
rules as always and keep embracing the mystery that surrounds
who attracts us and who doesn't. |