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Contributed by Kelly Jones, Lavalife
Although
you're likely a pro at navigating your way around the more visited
erogenous zones -- like the breasts, penis, butt, and clitoris
-- there are a number of body parts that don't get the attention
they deserve.
Taking time to explore these unchartered grounds spices up
your usual routine and may lead to an increase in sex drive!
Ears
Not just for listening to your partner talk dirty anymore,
these bundles of nerve endings are ultra-sensitive to touch.
Use your index finger and thumb to massage and caress the outer
ears with gentle, rhythmic pressure. Use your lips and tongue
to explore the area behind the ear, throwing in an occasional
gentle nibble here and there. Don't be afraid to exhale deeply
while you explore, as the sounds of breathing (and perhaps a
few moans of pleasure) are a supersonic turn-on. Be careful not
to accidentally give your partner a wet Willie during this aural
pleasure, though: there's nothing guaranteed to bring your session
to a grinding halt like one of these schoolyard antics.
Scalp
Ever noticed how much people like to twirl and touch and fondle
with their follicles and hair? Surprisingly, it's not usually
vanity at the root of such behavior. Rather, most do it because
it feels great. Next time you're anxious for a sexcapade, surprise
your lover with a salacious scalp massage. Run your fingers through
their tresses as you kiss, or simply sit behind them and gently
caress the scalp. To up the erotic ante, try taking a bubble
bath together, washing their hair with plenty of whole-body rhythmic
scalp massaging.
Perineum
This collection of nerve endings is usually an intimate bystander
when sex is on the menu. Sandwiched between the vagina or scrotum
and the anus, it usually goes unexplored. Pity, because this
rarely touched sensitive area delivers unexpectedly delicious
pleasure. Start with light touching to warm up the skin and then
gradually increase the pressure as the state of arousal increases.
Get saucy and slippery by adding some lubricant to the experience.
Inner Thighs
This area is as soft as it is sensitive to touch and tongue.
Even though inner thighs are rarely exposed during your average
day, there are plenty o' nerves in the area that are primed for
sensation. Gently kiss, suck and stroke the inner thighs, but
resist the urge to take a bite (ouchie). If both horizontal dancers
approve, though, a very gently nibble might be the dangerous
sensation that sends you both over the top.
Feet
While some people cringe at the thought of popping someone's
sweaty toe in their mouth, giving the feet some proper attention
is a fantabulous way to ease into sex. Start by giving your love
a footbath to clean away all that toe jam. Then rub in some scented
oil (edible, of course) while you massage the feet to relax them.
Spend time caressing the soles, toes, arches and ankles. Finally,
grab one of those little piggies in your mouth and suck all the
way home. |